
Last month the author of the best selling Christian book, “I Kissed Dating Goodbye” announced that he and his wife were filing for divorce. As if that wasn’t sad enough, on the heels of that announcement, Josh Harris shocked the world by stating he was leaving Christianity. In his renouncing of a faith that he had practiced over multiple decades, Harris also recanted the views that he had affirmed and defended in his book, read by millions.
But in reality, the “gospel” according to Harris, as he eloquently authored, didn’t survive even 3 decades, much less a lifetime or a millennia. Yet many who also reject the Bible and Christianity will now point to Harris as some sort of authoritative basis for affirming their own skepticism, and attacking Christianity.
As I was pondering Josh Harris’ about face, in such a profound and public manner, it started me thinking about the Bible. No, my faith in the Bible was not shaken or challenged by Harris’ rejection of God’s Word. Rather, Harris’ flip-flop reaffirmed and strengthened my belief in the authenticity and inerrancy of the book millions embrace.
You might ask, Why?
Books come and go. Premises, thoughts and philosophies also rise and fall. This reality stands to reason since men do the same. The thoughts and theories of man are at best brilliant, but in themselves men are fallible and frequently contradicted with new discoveries. Sooner or later the words of the best men are diminished and even forgotten.
But if the Author of a book is eternal, then it would seem reasonable that His words would be eternal as well. That’s what we see with the Holy Bible, God’s Word. Consider these facts about the Bible:
Written over a span of 1500 years,
By approximately 40 men,
In multiple languages,
Made up of 66 mini-books,
Is cohesive and consistent,
Banned by emperors and nations,
Remains the best selling book of all time.
Beyond these facts, God informs us in His Word:
“Heaven and earth will pass away, but My words will never pass away.” (Matthew 24:35)
The Bible is a spiritual book, but it is also historical, philosophical, archeological, scientific, and poetic. Yet, the more years that pass, the more the non-spiritual facts are validated.
One way we see this is the way in which the Bible describes scientific facts that are contrary to man’s understanding. What we see over time is that these “unproven” truths are ultimately validated as man’s knowledge and comprehension increases. (By the way, when a skeptic takes the time to investigate this reality, he may walk away amazed by this truth, but pride often prevents a person from actually doing this.)
If the Bible was just a book written by men in their own power and wisdom, sooner or later, many of their thoughts and assertions would be displaced as new information and facts are discovered. However, if the Bible is made up of God’s words, penned by men who were inspired and led by God’s Spirit, then its authenticity and inerrancy will forever be affirmed, even though its oldest words were written 3500 years ago.
The Bible stakes many claims, but some of the most important are those it makes of itself. Note these Truths, about how the Holy Book was actually written:
“…no prophecy in Scripture ever came from the prophet’s own understanding, or from human initiative. No, those prophets were moved by the Holy Spirit, and they spoke from God.” (2 Peter 1:20-21)
“All Scripture is inspired by God and is useful to teach us what is true and to make us realize what is wrong in our lives. It corrects us when we are wrong and teaches us to do what is right.” (2 Timothy 3:16)
Josh Harris’ about face does not disprove God’s Word. Rather, his recanting of his marital vows, and his previous spiritual beliefs, merely reveal a man who is broken and struggling, with himself, the people he loved, and the One he at one point worshipped. He needs our prayers.
I cannot look into Harris heart and know his deepest struggles, but I can know that no man’s belief or rejection will change God’s Word, or the ultimate Truth claims the Bible makes.
So the Bible is either true or a lie. The Book is either infallible, God’s very Word, or it’s fallible, simply words of men. Ultimately what you and I do with the Bible and its Truth claims will determine our eternal destiny.
Just as Jesus Christ, referred to as “the Word” in the gospel of John, is “the same yesterday, today and forever,” so too is the Bible. It does not change. It does not wilt. And it remains immutable, regardless of shifting winds or flip-flopping authors. So when everything else around you seems unstable and in constant change, hold on to the only Book that has stood for millenniums, and make it a part of your everyday life. It’s the only Truth that will always stand firm.

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I am Catholic. The Catholic Church has had many, many ups and downs. Almost all caused by man. God’s words and actions have not changed. People have changed and many take the easy way out. I will never ever give up on my God!
Amen Jim. Totally agree.
While Joshua Harris may have renounced Jesus, we know from Peter’s heart-breaking tale that Jesus has not renounced him, but that He will continue to seek Joshua’s heart and an eternal friendship with him. Satan works so hard to destroy God’s people. Our only safety is to walk daily with the Prince of Peace, Christ Jesus. To stay constant in prayer is the example left to us by Jesus and is the only way to a saving relationship with Him. I will add Joshua to my prayer list and encourage you all to join me in this.
Well said David. Great challenge for the rest of us! Thanks.
There is a reason the Bible stands. Because it never changes. The world changes and we as individuals change. Many times not for the better. Its principles, its guide lines for living are infallible. No, it wasn’t written by God,
but dictated by him to anointed writers. It is still the most powerful and effective life changing force in existence. I know. It changed my life. Bobby Wood
Thanks Bobby. It truly is a life-changer.
Thx Mark. I’ve got to believe years ago the slippage in his heart began. Could a young man have benefited from a good season of apprentice by older wise elders? Did he allow himself to rush too quickly into church leadership? Doubts will appear. But to have wise older godly voices to speak into the doubts is so important. Thx for anchoring us wisely in truths for eternity!! Love you brother!
Thanks Jim. Always good to get your perspective and wisdom. Blessings.
Thanks Mark for the insight given and proper prespective on a man who walks away from His wife and His God. He is a man in deep need of prayer. How we thank the Lord we have His Word which has been preserved for us even thoug through the centuries there are those who have derided it, have burned it and in some cases killed those who translated it. His Word is infallible, indestructible and indispensable. God bless you for your stand on His Word!
Thanks Bill. I totally agree that what Harris needs most is prayer.